Many people go into a relationship or are married because they need validation. Their primary need in a relationship is closeness, so much so that they cannot set healthy boundaries. They find it difficult to let go even when the relationship is unhealthy for them. The sad part is because of their neediness, many of […]
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Newlyweds undergo an adjustment phase sometimes characterised by a power struggle, disenchantment, balancing expectations with real life, and the like. The success of the marriage would depend on their ability to successfully navigate these areas in the earlier years of the relationship. Repeatedly, when I have the opportunity to talk with married couples who are
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Last week we talked about the loss of bond as one of the reasons people cheat. But you may have seen or heard of couples that are happy and yet one partner strays. The revelation of such affairs can be hurtful to the betrayed partner, sometimes leading to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). The reasons people
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If your spouse cheats, even if your sex life seems to be okay, you may be confused. Why would he/she cheat if sex is not the issue? The surprising fact is that cheating is mostly not about sex. There could be some other missing factor in your marriage that leads to infidelity. Let\’s take a
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A newlywed young Jewish woman; Bluma Zeigarnik sat in a café in Vienna and watched as professional waiters listened and took large orders from a good number of people without writing anything down. Then she watched as the waiters hurried from table to kitchen to table remembering everything the customers asked for. However, when she
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