It\’s easy for couples to get lost in work and family demands that they forget to give their relationship time. For any relationship to thrive their most be conversations, it is the reason we are admonished to pray regularly and read the holy scriptures to maintain our relationship with our Creator. Due to the pressures […]
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We conclude our study of the four communication patterns that lead to the demise of a relationship. Click here www.obleteworld.com/blog for previous articles. STONEWALLING; This is shorting down in the middle of a conflict discussion and refusing to respond but verbally and non-verbally. Predominantly, men are the users of this communication style, (about 85%). Stone
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We continue our study of the four communication patterns that lead to the demise of a relationship, we will be considering the third deadly communication pattern. DEFENSIVENESS: Criticism and contempt often trigger a person to defend themselves against an attack. People defend themselves when they feel attacked, they feel unjustly accused and may withdraw, act
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We continue our study of the four communication patterns that lead to the demise of a relationship, we have discussed criticism. CONTEMPT: Contempt is like taking criticism to a whole new level, it expresses a feeling of dislike towards somebody, it implies that the other person is worthless or undeserving of respect. The contemptuous partner
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So far, we have looked at three factors that affect the rate of sexual satisfaction in a marriage relationship. The factors we looked at where: The health of the relationship itself. Trust Communication The forth factor that determines the rate of sexual satisfaction in marriage is previous sexual experiences. Contrary to the believe that having
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Last week we looked at two factors that affect sexual satisfaction in a marriage relationship. The two factors we looked at where; The health of the relationship itself. Trust Today we will be looking at yet another factor; Communication; communication plays a huge part in sexually satisfaction, one\’s partner may be unaware of what he/
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Nneka and Chinedu had a love that could best be described as electric, from the very day they set eyes on each other they knew, they would be more than friends. It felt so right, their friends also confirmed it, they would make a great match. They were so in love. The wedding was beautiful,
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As the heightened emotions that once accompanied our love fade, we could find ourselves in a place of disillusion, we do not know or understand what is happening, where have all the feelings gone? Will they return? Did we do anything to make love leave? Is it possible that I may have married the wrong
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My husband, Francis and I started dating in our university days. For me it was fun, exciting, with some level of uncertainty, it felt really good most times and the uncertainty kept it interesting. The emotions were so high and we wanted if it was possible to spend every waking moment together. Our lectures wouldn\’t permit, at the end of the first semester after we started dating, he asked I come to his hostel and wait for him cos his own exams were finishing that day but later in the day-6pm to be precise.
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