In conflict interactions, 96% of the time, how a conversation starts determines how it will end – if a discussion starts harshly, it will most likely end in a fight. More often than not, women are the ones to start conversations on sensitive issues in the marriage that need addressing, and the man is usually […]
During the very first year of our marriage, we were out with other family members, and my husband made a joke that everyone laughed at but me. When we were finally home I told him I wasn’t happy with the joke he made because I felt it put me in a bad light, he was
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Quite often many singles in relationship base their definition of how strong their relationships are on the attraction the feel for each or on the passion in the relationship. Passion like we already know is not constant but keeps fluctuating, most do not realize that building and maintaining quality friendship is more a predictor of
Growing up one of the recurring complaint my parents and siblings had about me was that I was stubborn. For years I was ashamed of this part of myself, tried to push it aside, deny it, hide it etc. Coming in contact with Innocent Minds and the tools of NLP helped me reframe this trait
We conclude our study of the four communication patterns that lead to the demise of a relationship. Click here www.obleteworld.com/blog for previous articles. STONEWALLING; This is shorting down in the middle of a conflict discussion and refusing to respond but verbally and non-verbally. Predominantly, men are the users of this communication style, (about 85%). Stone
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My husband, Francis and I started dating in our university days. For me it was fun, exciting, with some level of uncertainty, it felt really good most times and the uncertainty kept it interesting. The emotions were so high and we wanted if it was possible to spend every waking moment together. Our lectures wouldn\’t permit, at the end of the first semester after we started dating, he asked I come to his hostel and wait for him cos his own exams were finishing that day but later in the day-6pm to be precise.
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